Stop Self-Doubt.
Regain control of your life.

Reshape the way you live, work, and think by overcoming self-sabotage and achieveing your goals.

Stop Self-Doubt.
Regain control of your life.

Reshape the way you live, work, and think by overcoming self-sabotage and achieveing your goals.

WHAT WE WERE SHOWN

Grind until it hurts
Sacrifice is the price of success. Sleep when you’re dead.

Happiness waits at the finish line
Suffer now. Enjoy it later, if you earn it.

Success means doing it alone
Needing help is a weakness. The go-it-alone mentality.

More is always the answer
Bigger goals, longer hours, higher stakes, keep pushing.

Only a rare few make it
This level of success is reserved for the exceptional.

WHAT IS POSSIBLE

Fall in love with the process
The journey is where the real transformation happens.

Choose to feel good right now
Happiness is the fuel, not the reward. It is always an option.

Success is built with intention
Self-Made means owning your thinking and feelings.

One decision changes everything
Small, international steps become extraordinary results.

This was always meant for you
It’s not about being exceptional. It’s about being intentional.

The SELF-Made Strategy that actually changes how you think.

Most programs only give you tactics. Self-Made U gives you the operating system for success. Our four pillars that rewire how you see yourself, your circumstances, and what’s possible.

PILLAR 01

Recognize the Pattern
You can’t change what you can’t see. The first step is learning to identify self-sabotage in real time at the exact moment it shows up and why it’s there. Most people have been stuck in the pattern so long that they think it’s just who they are.

PILLAR 02

Own Your Thinking
Your thoughts are not facts. They’re habits. Self-Made U teaches you to separate observation from interpretation, so you stop reacting to the story and start choosing the story.

PILLAR 03

Choose Differently. Now.
Happiness is not a destination; it’s a practice. You learn to access a state of feeling better right now, not after you achieve the goal, not when life settles down. Now.

PILLAR 04

Fall in Love With the Process
When you feel good on the way to your goal, you stop white-knuckling it. Momentum becomes natural, progress compounds, and when you finally arrive, you’re not drained. You’re ready for whatever comes next.

A cyclical process that makes success simple and repeatable.

We offer four clear steps you can use and repeat in every aspect of life. We teach this process across all of our programs, from health and career to dating and personal growth.

S

START WITH YOU

Everything begins with
self-awareness

Before you can build anything that lasts, you need to understand how you think, what drives you, and where you’ve been holding yourself back.

E

ELIMINATE SELF-SABOTAGE

Name the pattern. Break
the cycle.

Identify the specific self-sabotage patterns that have been quickly running the show, so you can interrupt them the moment they appear.

L

LEVERAGE YOUR STRENGTH

Build from what’s already working.

Stop trying to fix your weaknesses. Double down on your strengths. Use what you already have to create momentum that compounds over time.

F

FINISH WITH ONE STEP

Progress over perfection. Always.

One intentional decision at a time. Small decisions compound into extraordinary results, and you finish what you started every time.

From bad decision-making to life transformations.

From business breakthroughs to dating transformations, see how our clients use the SELF-Made Strategy to take control of their lives.

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“The value of this program goes way beyond weight loss – it is life-changing on all levels. My husband and I joined the weight loss program, and it’s been transformative. The comprehensive teachings gave us more energy, clarity and confidence as we enter into a new phase of life. Self-Made U is simply magical!”

— Kate M.

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“Self-Made U is an absolute gift! I was at a pivotal moment where I knew it was time to make a career change. So I took all my experience, skills and passions and created a business where I could make a difference. The workshops gave me the confidence to grow to levels I never thought possible in such a short amount of time.”

— Erin M.

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“Self-Made U was exactly what I needed to start my own business. I dabbled with foundational work yet most of the big, critical pieces needed developing. Tracy’s guidance helped me work through defining my next steps, and now instead of feeling overwhelmed, I’m excited and creating my very own program, launching VERY soon!”

— Carrie B.

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“Many of my relationships improved since going through Self-Made U. My marriage is stronger than ever after more than 27 years together. I’m more patient and empathetic toward my aging mother and I have more empathy for the people at work who I have previously allowed to make me unhappy. Thank you for everything!”

— Heather Z.

We built what we needed when we were stuck

Tracy and Gracie are a mother-daughter duo coaching team who left the traditional path to build lives and businesses on our own terms. Tracy left corporate America to create Self-Made U, helping thousands of people stop self-sabotage and achieve their goals.

Gracie built Dating with Gracie, a dating-coach program for men that grew a global following and an engaged online community.

Together, they live what we teach. In a world driven by algorithms and AI, the most valuable skill is learning how to think for yourself and build the life you want. Self-Made U is how they teach you to do esactly that.

Choose your Path to Becoming Self-Made

Our life coaches can help you overcome any challenge through self-awareness and intentional decision-making.

HEALTH & WELLNESS

Are you satisfied with your current health, fitness, nutrition and energy levels?

Represents healthy lifestyle habits and overall emotional, physical and mental well-being

CAREER & WORK

How fulfilling is your current role, and does it align with your skills, interests and values?

Addresses fulfillment, impact, professional growth and alignment with career goals

CONTRIBUTION & GIVING

How gratified are you with the difference you’re making in the lives of others?

Measures how much you give back, engage with your community and create positive impact

FINANCES

How content are you with your savings, debt and income levels?

Reflects your financial health, security and progress toward short- and long-term goals

RELATIONSHIPS

How connected are you with the people who matter most to you?

Captures the quality and depth of your connections with family, friends and social network

PHYSICAL ENVIRONMENT

How well does your living and working environment support your lifestyle?

Describes how organized and supportive your spaces are for promoting well-being

ENJOYMENT & FULFILLMENT

Are you content with the variety of fun and recreation in your life, or are you stuck in a routine?

Focuses on how often you engage in activities that bring joy, relaxation and playfulness

PERSONAL GROWTH

Are you continually gaining knowledge to develop yourself in rewarding ways?

Reflects your efforts to build skills, expand knowledge and unlock your potential in meaningful ways