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Stop sabotaging the life you want.

Self-Made U helps you catch self-sabotage and finish what you start, in your health, career, and relationships. Take the free quiz to find your pattern.

or join the free community →
Real self-awareness
Eliminate self-sabotage
Momentum that compounds
Fall in love with the process
Live coaching weekly
Free to join on Skool
Journals & Planners on Shopify
Built by Tracy & Gracie
Small decisions · Simple steps · Life-changing results
Real self-awareness
Eliminate self-sabotage
Momentum that compounds
Fall in love with the process
Live coaching weekly
Free to join on Skool
Journals & Planners on Shopify
Built by Tracy & Gracie
Self-Made U
You were taught the wrong way to succeed. Here's what actually works.
What you were told
Grind until it hurts.
Happiness waits at the finish line.
Do it alone. Asking for help is weakness.
More is always the answer.
Only a rare few make it.
What's actually true
Fall in love with the process.
Feel good now. Happiness is the fuel, not the reward.
Success is built with intention, not isolation.
One good decision compounds into big results.
This was always meant for you.
Free 3-Minute Quiz
So why do you stay stuck?

It's not a motivation problem. It's self-sabotage, and it shows up as four predictable patterns. Take the 12-question quiz to find yours, plus the one SELF step that breaks it.

No cost. Instant results.
Millions of people have this story. You're not alone.
You're not broken.
You're ready to do it differently and really become Self-Made.

Arrive ready for more.

Learn to feel good on the way, not just at the finish line. That's what actually changes.

Real self-awareness
Eliminate self-sabotage
Momentum that compounds
Proof It Works

From business breakthroughs to life transformations.

★★★★★
"The value of this program goes way beyond weight loss, it is life changing on all levels. The teachings gave us more energy, clarity and confidence. Self-Made U is simply magical!"
, Kate M.
★★★★★
"Self-Made U is an absolute gift! I took all my experience, skills and passions and created a business where I could make a difference. The workshops gave me the confidence to grow to levels I never thought possible."
, Erin M.
★★★★★
"Self-Made U was exactly what I needed to start my own business. Tracy's guidance helped me work through defining my next steps, and now instead of feeling overwhelmed, I'm excited and creating my very own program, launching VERY soon!"
, Carrie B.
★★★★★
"Many of my relationships improved since going through Self-Made U. My marriage is stronger than ever after more than 27 years together. I'm more patient and empathetic at home and at work. Thank you for everything!"
, Heather Z.
The SELF Strategy

The method that actually changes how you think.

Most programs hand you tactics. The SELF Strategy gives you the operating system: a four-step method to catch self-sabotage, own your thinking, and finish what you start. Start With You. Eliminate Self-Sabotage. Leverage Your Strengths. Finish With One Simple Step.

See how the SELF Strategy works →
Meet the coaches

We built what
we wish had
existed when
we were stuck.

Tracy and Gracie are a mother-daughter coaching team. Tracy left corporate America to build Self-Made U, helping thousands of people stop self-sabotage and reach their goals.

Gracie built her own business as a dating coach for men, growing a global following through her community, Dating with Gracie.

Together, they live what they teach: how to think for yourself and build the life you want. That's exactly what Self-Made U helps you do.

TracyCo-Founder · Lead Coach
GracieCo-Founder · Lead Coach
The Community

Where the methodology
becomes your life.

The Self-Made U Skool community is where learning becomes doing. Live coaching, weekly content, and a group of people who are genuinely choosing differently. Together.

Free to join
Start here.
It won't cost you anything.

Join the community today and get immediate access to the foundational Self-Made U content. No credit card, no pressure.

Free to join · Hosted on Skool
Standard
Free
Community, tutorials, and the Goals Workshop.
Premium
$697/yr
Everything in Standard, plus the on-demand Self-Made Mind & Body Reset and the Health Lab App.
Founding rate · first 25
VIP
$1,997/yr
Founding rate, regularly $2,997/yr
Everything in Premium, plus two LIVE 12-week Resets per year, weekly live Reset Calls during each cycle, and monthly Integration & Recalibration Calls between cycles.

Join free. Go at your own pace. Upgrade when you’re ready to go deeper.

Inside the Self-Made U community on Skool
New · Self-Made Mind & Body

Your mind and your health, trained together.

Twelve weeks, three phases, weekly live coaching, and a group moving through it beside you. Most programs build your mindset or your body. This one builds both.

Explore the Reset →
The Planners

Your thinking, on paper.

Two journals and planners designed to bring the Self-Made U methodology into your daily life. Available now in the Self-Made U Shopify store.

Becoming Self-Made Goal Planner
Goal Planner

Becoming Self-Made Goal Planner

Aligns your daily tasks with your thoughts and values. The core SMU tool for intentional decisions, every day.
$27 · Black or Brown
Self-Made Mind & Body 12-Week Reset
12-Week Reset

Self-Made Mind & Body 12-Week Reset

A 12-week mental and metabolic reset. Rebuild how you think and how your body feels, in one structured journey.
$29.99
Latest Articles

Think differently. Every week.

Personal Growth
The SELF Strategy: How to Gain Control & Achieve Your Goals
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Personal Growth
Harnessing the Power of Your Prodigy Brain: How to Unlock Your Full Potential
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Personal Growth
Understanding the Primitive Brain: Mastering Your Thoughts for Better Control and Success
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Personal Growth
The ONE Thing You Must Do BEFORE Setting Your Goals
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★★★★★
"The way my mind was geared towards food before starting Self-Made U never served me properly. The coaches helped me change that mentality and find more positivity and happiness in my mind, body and spirit. If you're looking for that change you've been telling yourself you need. This is it. Time to be the best version of yourself."
, Jessica R.
★★★★★
"Focusing on meaningful goals and mindful habits transformed my life. I have less stress, more sleep and quality of work have improved immensely! I've also learned to value progress and purpose over external validation while embracing mindful eating without guilt. This journey has empowered me to live a balanced, fulfilling life."
, Lynda B.
★★★★★
"When I decided to launch my own business I wanted maximum success. Based on Tracy's success, I knew she was the right life coach for me. Her dedication to my success was incredible. Be prepared for two things: to do real work necessary to start a successful business AND to learn more than you thought you needed. Tracy is THE BEST!"
, Maria R.
★★★★★
"This program is amazing!! I don't even recognize the person at my son's graduation in June of 2019. Today, I feel like the weight of the world has been lifted off my shoulders. With the help of the Self-Made U workshops and the incredible coaching, I learned how to think differently, and now I am in control of it all!"
, Rhonda F.
DWG
Dating with Gracie
Sister Brand

Nearly 1,000,000 men are already dating differently.

Gracie's coaching community helps single men stop second-guessing themselves, attract the right women, and show up with confidence. If you know someone who would benefit, or if you're curious yourself, this is where to send them.

Ready to begin

You're not broken. You're ready. The future belongs to the Self-Made.

Take the quiz, join the community free, or get the planner. However you start, start now. One decision changes everything.

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