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Becoming Self-Made
verb | adjective \ bə-ˈkə-ming self-ˈmād \
- The process of deliberately creating what you want with ease.
- Learning how to use the SELF-Control Strategy to become the solution to your problems and unlock your goals.
The SELF-Control Strategy
The SELF-Control Strategy is a continuous, cyclical process with unlimited applications, becoming the solution to your problems and the key to unlocking your goals.
The more you rely on yourself, the more you learn about yourself. With that heightened self-awareness comes greater confidence and control.
Start with a Decision
Eliminate Self-Sabotage
Finish with a Decision
Leverage Prodigy Brain Strengths

START WITH A DECISION
Define your goals and intentions with clarity and purpose.
ELIMINATE SELF-SABOTAGE
Identify and overcome limiting beliefs or distractions that might hold you back.
LEVERAGE YOUR STRENGTHS
Tap into your unique abilities to work smarter, not harder.
FINISH WITH A DECISION
Close each day or week by evaluating progress and planning your next steps.
Hello! We're Tracy & Gracie

Hello! We're Tracy & Gracie
A certified mother-daughter life coaching duo, and the proud founders of Self-Made U. We offer personalized coaching, interactive workshops and supportive communities to help you take control of your life.
Our proven process, including the Becoming Self-Made Goal Planner, guides you toward making intentional decisions, overcoming obstacles and creating the results you desire in every area of your life.
How satisfying is your life right now?
We offer coaching and workshops in these core areas of life to help you overcome any challenge and achieve your goals.

HEALTH & WELLNESS

CAREER & WORK

CONTRIBUTION & GIVING

FINANCES

RELATIONSHIPS

PHYSICAL ENVIRONMENT

ENJOYMENT & FULFILLMENT

PERSONAL GROWTH
How satisfying is your life right now?
We offer coaching and workshops in these core areas of life to help you overcome any challenge and achieve your goals.

HEALTH & WELLNESS
Are you satisfied with your current health, fitness, nutrition and energy levels?

CAREER & WORK
Is your current role fulfilling, and does it align with your skills, interests and values?

CONTRIBUTION & GIVING
How gratified are you with the difference you’re making in the lives of others?

FINANCES
How content are you with your savings, debt and income levels?

RELATIONSHIPS
How connected are you with the people who matter most to you?

PHYSICAL ENVIRONMENT
How well does your living and working environment support your lifestyle?

ENJOYMENT & FULFILLMENT
Are you content with the variety of fun in your life, or are you stuck in a routine?

PERSONAL GROWTH
Are you continually gaining knowledge to develop yourself in rewarding ways?
If you hesitated on any questions above, it's time to act.
Join us now and find the solution you deserve.

The benefits of Becoming Self-Made
Knowing your deeper reasons keeps you committed to your goals
Understanding your "why" helps you make better decisions
A strong purpose helps you overcome challenges
Aligning goals with your values leads to more fulfilling success
Your membership includes
PERSONALIZED COACHING
- Access to discounted 1:1 coaching sessions for tailored guidance.
- Group coaching twice a week—live and on-demand sessions for flexibility.
EXCLUSIVE LEARNING OPPORTUNITIES
- Weekly workshops focused on life strategies and ongoing personal growth.
- Access to the SMU Certification Program.
SPECIAL PERKS
- Exciting giveaways and prizes to reward community engagement.
SUPPORT & ACCOUNTABILITY
- Connect with a community of like-minded individuals who inspire and motivate.
- Engage in Becoming Self-Made Challenges to stay on track and achieve goals.
This membership is designed to empower you every step of the way!


Our planner is your roadmap to achieving BIG goals, one day at a time
The Becoming Self-Made Goal Planner is more than a productivity tool—it’s your guide to purposeful, balanced and meaningful action.
This planner integrates daily tasks with your thoughts and values, helping you:
- Leverage your strengths to drive progress.
- Recognize and overcome self-sabotaging patterns.
- Make confident, goal-focused decisions to help you move forward.
More than traditional task tracking and checking boxes—our planner helps you shift your mindset, empowering you to live intentionally.
Ready to take control of your goals and find balance in your life? Subscribe to our newsletter and be the first to know when the new Becoming Self-Made Goal Planner is available!
“The value of this program goes way beyond weight loss - it is life changing on all levels. My husband and I joined the weight loss program, and it's been transformative. The comprehensive teachings gave us more energy, clarity and confidence as we enter into a new phase of life. Self-Made U is simply magical!"
- Kate M.
"Self-Made U is an absolute gift! I was at a pivotal moment where I knew it was time to make a career change. So I took all my experience, skills and passions and created a business where I could make a difference. The workshops gave me the confidence to grow to levels I never thought possible in such a short amount of time."
- Erin M.
"Self-Made U was exactly what I needed to start my own business. I dabbled with foundational work yet most of the big, critical pieces needed developing. Tracy’s guidance helped me work through defining my next steps, and now instead of feeling overwhelmed, I’m excited and creating my very own program, launching VERY soon!"
- Carrie B.
“Many of my relationships improved since going through Self-Made U. My marriage is stronger than ever after more than 27 years together. I’m more patient and empathetic toward my aging mother and I have more empathy for the people at work who I have previously allowed to make me unhappy. Thank you for everything!"
- Heather Z.
"Tracy has a gift for listening and helping people reach their desired results. Whether it's professional or personal in nature, her focus is for you to succeed. I have worked with Tracy and the thinking process she incorporates truly does drive clarity and action. You won't regret signing up. It will change your life!"
- Jill S.
"Working with Tracy was life-changing. Her program helped me embrace a sustainable, confident lifestyle by connecting my thoughts, feelings and actions, which I apply to every area of my life! With her guidance and a supportive community, you have so much to gain and nothing to lose—except weight and unnecessary suffering! 😊"
- RoAnna B.
"Self-Made U was instrumental in helping me expand my vison and take my business to the next level. The workshops encouraged me to look beyond billable hours and retainers, and develop a digital platform that allowed me to do what I love and serve more clients without having to revert back to the 60-hour workweeks."
– Chris O.
"Physically, I lost nearly 20 lbs. Mentally, I gained the confidence that I CAN achieve weight loss. I also gained education and knowledge on HOW to become fat-adapted, how to achieve ketosis and what foods fuel me…for life! Emotionally, I’m happier and more content. Don’t miss the awesome workshops. Anyone can do it!" 😉
– Julie B.
"The way my mind was geared towards food before starting Self-Made U never served me properly. The coaches helped me change that mentality and find more positivity and happiness in my mind, body and spirit! If you’re looking for that change you’ve been telling yourself you need...this is it. Time to be the best version of yourself."
– Jessica R.
"Focusing on meaningful goals and mindful habits transformed my life. I have less stress, more sleep and quality of work have improved immensely! I’ve also learned to value progress and purpose over external validation while embracing mindful eating without guilt. This journey has empowered me to live a balanced, fulfilling life."
– Lynda B.
"When I decided to launch my own business I wanted maximum success. Based on Tracy’s success, I knew she was the right life coach for me. Her dedicated to my success was incredible. Be prepared for two things: to do real work necessary to start a successful business AND to learn more than you thought you needed. Tracy is THE BEST!"
– Maria R.
"This program is amazing!! I don’t even recognize the person at my son’s graduation in June of 2019. Today, I feel like the weight of the world has been lifted off my shoulders. With the help of the Self-Made U workshops and the incredible coaching, I learned how to think differently about food, my life and now I am in control of it all!"
– Rhonda F.
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